Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Some unexpected things that secretly make a man hurt.....

Women known to have a sensitive feeling than men. But apparently there are some unexpected things that secretly make a man hurt, especially if it's done by her own. If a woman can deftly vent emotions and feelings when hurt, men tend to keep to himself because it does not like confrontation. Here are the unexpected things that can hurt a man, as quoted from Madame Noire. 1. Underestimating the work Man's work is an important part in his life, which shows his true identity. Instinctively, the man regarded as the provider. When you made a joke negatively about his work, or do not care what he does, it can be offensive side of manhood. If man was created as a provider but there are women who criticize her work, is tantamount to saying he's not a whole man. 2. Did not introduce him When Friends Meet Some of you may have experienced this situation: while walking together with a lover, suddenly met a friend who had a very long time no see. So missed, you were immediately ran toward the friend, shaking hands / hugging and chatting that I forget to introduce her lover who stood awkwardly beside you. It may seem trivial, but he'll feel stupid if his girlfriend were chatting with others and act like he's not near you. His feelings would be hurt if a friend to talk to the man. 3. Refuse his help in Front of Others You used to bring their own groceries, opening a bottle cap or fix your own car. In a way, you are an independent woman who does not have to always depend on her lover. Men don't matter if her boyfriend said, "No need to help, I could do it myself" when he offered to help; but if the situation is only between him and his girlfriend. But when it happens in front of friends or parents of the woman, without realizing she would be considered lazy by their feel. Give him a chance to help you, even if you do not actually need it. 4. Canceling Appointments at the Last Minute Everyone will be upset if the appointment date was canceled abruptly. But for men, not just upset that he can but also heartache. In terms of dating, men tend to be more spontaneous than women and more like a date without a plan from far-away days. When he finally tried to do something special - such as planning a romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant - but you suddenly cancel it one day or even two hours before the appointment, he will feel his self-esteem has dropped to its lowest

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